You have likely seen many instances where people are struggling exercising new skills, but are afraid to ask for help. Then once their skills and confidence grow, they realize that it was always ok to ask for help.
What is the
role of the leader when people are developing new skills? A review of Hersey-Blanchard’s
situational leadership is well worth some study for a brilliant, yet simple, framework
that offers guidance on the role of a leader in developing people and their
skills. There is much material available on situational leadership. This link
provides a brief overview https://www.investopedia.com/terms/h/hersey-and-blanchard-model.asp
A Book Titled
“I Was Never Here”
I found an
interesting example of avoiding asking for assistance in a book I recently
read. The book was written by a former
spy. The story is about his past work in the Canadian Security Intelligence
Service (CSIS), which is Canada's primary national intelligence
agency. The book is titled I Was Never Here and is written by
Andrew Hirsch.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/60288495-i-was-never-here
The Book
and Behavior in Organizations
The book was
less exciting than I expected considering the author was a spy, but it is an
interesting read regardless. It’s
interesting because it’s about people, and individual and team behavior in
organizations.
The book
jacket makes clear that the book isn’t a James Bond thriller, but instead
offers insight into his former role in CSIS. And CSIS is a large federal agency
that does great work, however it is a typical organization with battles for
resources, and protective behavior amongst teams within the organization.
An
interesting section describes surveillance of a car which belonged to a person
of interest. A mistake is made which
slows the surveillance work, and the CSIS technical experts are very protective
of the team member that made the mistake.
This slows the work. The protective
team behavior complicates the greater goal of the organization to the
frustration of the other teams involved and senior leadership.
Embarrassed
to Admit It
My main
interest is in public speaking and leadership skills and there is often
reluctance by people to address gaps in these areas. Considering this
reluctance, I enjoyed this passage on page 76 of the copy I read. He described
moving from a desk job in the agency where he managed various data reporting
needs, and then the difficult move to more dangerous field work.
“When I didn’t know what I was doing I was embarrassed to
admit it. As my confidence grew, so did my willingness to admit when I needed
help.”
It's common that
people are reluctant to acknowledge a skill gap or ask for assistance. The
situational leadership model provides a framework to help leaders in the art of
assessing skill development of team members and responding appropriately.
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