An excellent article on the benefits of joining a Toastmasters club
https://www.livecareer.com/resources/jobs/search/boost-career
An excellent article on the benefits of joining a Toastmasters club
https://www.livecareer.com/resources/jobs/search/boost-career
An October 2021 interview on public speaking, content, structure and Toastmasters
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYaHngJE6ak&t=670s
The link below provides access to
an excellent article I discovered. Often
when I coach speakers, they struggle defining their purpose or their point.
There is no need to overthink this, but a speaker needs to have a point and be
clear about it.
Here’s a quick exercise to define
your purpose;
1. Why were you selected to
speak to this audience on this subject?
2. Decide what you want this audience
to understand or do as a result of hearing your presentation.
3. Once you've decided this,
make sure you communicate your purpose at the beginning and end of your
presentation. Everything you say in
between best support this purpose.
You might enjoy this article about Steve Rogers, a very
successful starting pitcher for the Montreal Expos back in the 70s and 80s. He
was a dominant pitcher on the club and as this article states he had won three
games in the 1981 playoffs. That’s
impressive.
However, in the playoffs when teams face a win-or-go-home
scenario players are required to step outside of their comfort zone and fill an
unfamiliar role. Rogers the starting
pitcher was asked to become Rogers the relief pitcher during the deciding game
against the Los Angeles Dodgers. This interrupted
his routine of starting a game, then having a few days of rest and recovery
before starting another game.
The Expos sent Rogers, their best pitcher, to the mound as a
reliever for the ninth inning in the deciding game and he delivered a home-run
pitch to Rick Monday of the Dodgers, who would then go on to win the World
Series versus the New York Yankees in six games. Expos fans like me remember this
well. Rogers won three games in the
1981 playoffs yet this is what we remember.
It’s an interesting story and read when thinking about how
we respond when we are outside of our comfort zone.
This week I had a lesson about taking my own advice. I’ll often advise people on how to speak publicly and/or privately about things they’re working on because listeners might connect you with a helper, or may directly lend a hand.
At the end of September one of my excellent tenants vacated
a small apartment building I’ve owned for over twenty-five years. One of the tasks that I don’t enjoy as a
landlord is finding new tenants as the vacancy rate is low, demand is high, and
landlords like me get lots of phone calls and email from ‘tire kickers’ and
people who don’t bother to read the ads, they just phone or email. So conversations like
this are not uncommon;
“Where is your apartment?’
“West. Like it says in the listing.’
“Oh I’m looking for something east. How many bedrooms?’
“One. Like it says in the listing.”
“Oh I’m looking for a two bedroom. Is heat included?”
“No. Heat isn’t included as it says in the listing.”
“Oh. Well thanks
anyway.”
Then it happened that I was outside getting some exercise cycling
and I saw a friend walking down the street. I stopped and we chatted. I
mentioned I had an empty apartment. He said he had two acquaintances who were
looking for an apartment. Right then and
there I had two quality leads with a reference I trusted. And now I have a
great new tenant.
While you do need to choose your time and place, make a
point to be open about goals you’re considering or working on. Be prepared when
someone asks ‘what’s new?’
Over the past couple of years I have written two books. One book is on public speaking and the second
about my experience on a road trip visiting hockey towns during a Canadian winter. For reference the books are available here amazon.com/author/jimkokocki
I’m delighted that I’ve produced these books, but I don’t
enjoy marketing and selling the books. This is ironic as I spent much of my
career in marketing and sales, primarily to large business customers.
Nonetheless, this weekend while visiting family in Sydney,
Nova Scotia I dropped into the local shop for the national Chapters Indigo to
see if they’d stock some copies. The
manager wasn’t present but I emailed her and she is taking the books on
consignment.
I was in the mall.
Visited the store. Sent an email.
Now will receive (relatively) passive
income.
The lesson is ask for the sale.
As I write this in September 2026, my country of Canada and our long-time friend and ally the United States of America are engaged in a dumb...